If I'm arguing with you at 9:00PM it's because I'm exhausted and cranky. The worst thing I could do is stay up even later and keep arguing until I've managed to viciously insult your grandmother and choice of career, and made a complete list of your character flaws. Go to bed angry. Sleep. At least for me, when I wake up refreshed in the morning, it will be very likely I've already forgotten why we started fighting in the first place. Even if it can't be forgotten, I'll have a clear head to rationally discuss any and all disagreements. Fight rested.
#GoToBedAngry #FightRested