No matter how flat a pancake is, there are still two sides. Intellectually I know this is true, but frankly, I'm not sure I've thought that way in years, if ever. I'm opinionated and pretty bossy. I do take the time to listen to people; I smile and nod. BUT.
Seriously considering or pondering what people say in response to me doesn't come naturally. When I have an idea or an argument in my head, I'm bent on getting my point across, and allowing the other person to occasionally speak is simply a courtesy I extend. Many times, after they make a new point, I jump in to rebut that as well.
Today I realized I am really cheating myself by not thoughtfully considering other views. That's how we learn, how we grow as human beings. Chipping away and putting some cracks in your strongly-held views might in the end make them stronger.
While we certainly won't always have our minds changed because of listening to opposing beliefs, we will be better informed, and possibly more convincing, in our original conviction. And don't be surprised if once in awhile your original feelings do change. You become enlightened. Wiser.
Soon people will enjoy verbally sparring with you because they know you'll be genuinely fair and considerate. The topics can range all the way from the existence of God to what to serve for brunch. There is #NO DOWNSIDE to listening to a contrasting idea. Start today!