MEN ARE NEVER NEVER NEVER TOO BUSY TO CALL OR TEXT A WOMAN THEY REALLY LIKE.
DO NOT MAKE EXCUSES FOR A MAN WHO ISN'T CONTACTING YOU AND ASKING YOU TO GO OUT ON DATES IN PUBLIC.
So when you've met someone and you really like him but he only texts here and there and tells you he's busy but he wants to get together sometime, ERASE HIS NUMBER FROM YOUR PHONE (or better yet, change his name to DO NOT ANSWER.)
Years ago it was called, "Playing hard to get." Men wanted women they couldn't easily have. Then women said "No more games. I will call him. I will ask him out." Well, I'm afraid to tell you that we ALL like people who not overly available or smothering. We like a little challenge. AND WE NEED IT. And I'll tell you why:
We weed out the bad ones when we are not at someone's beck and call. When a man has to take extra steps and he doesn't, that means he's just not that into you.
So even if he is super cute and smart and fun, if he doesn't like you enough to PURSUE you, forget about him immediately. Immediately. It will be hard, of course, but it will be a THOUSAND TIMES EASIER than if you've been stringing yourself along for six months or god forbid six years. Because when he meets a woman he IS into, you won't hear from him again.
Have some pride. Have a nice busy life with work, friends, family and social activities. If you're serious about wanting a boyfriend, he will come to you, I promise. Don't waste your time on the too-busy-to-go-out-on-a-Saturday-night-men. Whatever you do, please don't be that pathetic woman telling her friends that he's SO BUSY so you haven't been able to get together. NO ONE IS THAT BUSY.